How To Meet and Date Single Girls in Ho Chi Minh City
Sexy Vietnamese girls are some of the hottest in Asia, but they are not the easiest for foreign men to hook up with. This post on how to meet and date single girls in Ho Chi Minh City will hopefully be able to help you out.
While in some places in Asia girls are going to be all over you if you are a foreigner that is not the case here. Many girls do have an interest in foreign men, but knowing which ones do is never easy.
Generally women here stick to their own kind in public. You will see many very sexy Vietnamese girls when you are out and about, but they will almost always be in groups with other locals.
The language barrier is also very difficult, one of the main things that makes the Philippines the online dating capitol of the world is that the girls speak such good English. That is not the case here at all.
On top of all that the Vietnamese girls are not generally quick to hook up with a guy they just met. Expect it to take a few dates before ladies in Saigon will have sex, and they also will hope that it is in a relationship that is actually going somewhere, not just a fling.
Of course there will be some sluts here too, but not near as many as other places. If you want to have a lot of casual sex with many single girls this isn’t the right place. Other Southeast Asian girls are much easier.
However if you want to find a smoking hot Vietnamese girlfriend or bride the reward can be great. Lets talk about how to meet a good woman in Ho Chi Minh City first, then move on to how and where to date them.
It should be noted if you are more interested in the hooker scene check out our Saigon sex guide. Lets start with day game, then do nightlife, and then talk about meeting girls online.
Where To Meet Sexy Vietnamese Girls In Public
This is really not an easy thing to do in this country for many reasons. If you are an absolute approaching machine and have no problems walking up to a table full of locals at a coffee shop and chatting up the sexiest girl then maybe you will have some success.
Most mere mortals aren’t going to be able to pull something like that off, and you have to assume most of the Vietnamese girls aren’t going to be very receptive to that either. That said there is a huge coffee culture here, there are coffee shops all over, and every night there are sexy girls at them.
Hanging out in them may not be a bad idea, but you will definitely notice that there isn’t much (if any) mingling going on between foreigners and Vietnamese. Another good place to meet girls in Saigon is to visit parks during the day.
There are quite a few parks around, and we don’t just mean the one by Bui Vien. If you head out into the city where girls aren’t as used to seeing foreigners you will probably have a better shot.
Many guys have reported girls coming up to them to try and practice their English. If you have some game that may work out, or they may just want to practice their English.
Saigon Square is a very busy place and lots of sexy single ladies go there every day and night. It is pretty crowded and not the best place in the world to approach girls, but it is definitely a target rich environment.
If you want to try a mall you can try out Vincom, but Saigon Square has a lot of shopping and may work better. Those are your day game options, now lets move to the nightclub options.
While you probably will want to stay in District 1 you might have better success picking up Vietnamese girls in other areas of the city where there aren’t as many foreigners.
Best Nightclubs in Ho Chi Minh City To Find Single Girls
If you want hookers you can head to Apocalypse Now, this is more about where the non hooker Vietnamese girls go to party. Even when they are drunk and partying they are unlikely to give it up the first time you meet, but when alcohol is involved you have a better chance.
These girls definitely get dressed to impress (slutty) even if they are conservative. They show a lot of skin and many will look like hookers.
In a Southeast Asian nightclub there is always a chance any of the ladies of the night are hookers, but unlike in Apocalypse Now you don’t have to assume every girl at these clubs will be. For a long time a place like Lush has been considered one of the best nightclubs in Saigon, and it is still strong to this day.
However Lush might have more hookers than the others on this list. Chill Sky Bar is a great place to go for a date or to pick up that has an amazing view of the city.
A few others that you should try and check out are:
- Club 212
- Club DC
- 02 Gold
Meeting Single Vietnamese Girls in HCMC Online
When approach spots are hard to come by for day game and the girls aren’t likely to hook up the first time you meet them in nightclubs where should you turn? Try meeting single girls in Saigon online.
As we mentioned before many of the girls here will have an interest in foreign men, but they aren’t necessarily keen on having other people know it. You could approach a smoking hot girl in a coffee shop that would love to talk with you, but if she is with her friends she might be too shy.
However if you send her a message on Vietnam Cupid you will have a much higher success rate. Single girls sign up to Vietnamese dating sites because they want to meet a guy, and meet them soon.
Think of it like this, are you going to have more success hooking up with a girl you met at the grocery store or at a singles bar? The girls you try to pick up in person haven’t really shown any interest in meeting guys, they may not even be single.
The girls that are taking the time to sign up to Vietnam Cupid and that reply to your messages have shown a lot of interest already. That means you will have a much higher success rate with them.
On top of that, if you spend all day doing day game and party in the Ho Chi Minh City nightlife all night how many girls can you realistically meet? 10? 15? You can do that in 5 minutes online.
Another nice thing is that since these girls might be shy to be seen in public with foreign men that only leaves 1 spot for the first date. Not every girl you meet online will want to come to your hotel or apartment the first time, but some will prefer it so no one knows what they are doing.
That won’t guarantee sex, but if sure makes it a lot more likely than a dinner date followed by a stroll around the park. The easiest way to meet Vietnamese girls in Saigon is with online dating.
Vietnam Cupid is the best site with the most single girls. It will probably take a few dates to get laid, but some of these girls are very sexy and the rewards will be worth it.
Good Date Spots in Ho Chi Minh City
You should probably try and get a hotel in District 1. This is where you will find the best nightlife in Ho Chi Minh City, and is where most of the tourists will be. The backpacking district is called Bui Vien.
The traffic in this city isn’t terrible so venturing out won’t be hard, and District 1 is a great place to make your home base. Finding a good date spot in this area will be extremely easy.
There are great places to eat all around, so many nice open air restaurants and cafes. You can get good Indian food at Tandoor or Ganesh, good French food at La Villa, or Vietnamese food at Hoa Tuc.
Remember the coffee culture here, so invite a girl for a coffee for a casual first date. Then you can try to move the date back to your place, or maybe to a restaurant, bar, or nightclub. Use any of the nightclubs that we listed before if you want to take your date out for drinks and dancing.
Don’t take a good woman to Apocalypse now, and maybe avoid Lush. Skybar, 212, and DC will all be great. Girls here are generally not going to be very good at English, communicating might be hard so try and find a place that has some live music like 17 Saloon or Vascos.
Going to a movie is another good option, that way you can spend time together without her feeling forced to communicate in a language she doesn’t know. Dating Vietnamese girls isn’t the easiest, but if you put in the time you will be happy with the outcome.
Good Luck Meeting Single Girls in Ho Chi Minh City
You will be hard pressed to find a guy who took a trip to Ho Chi Minh City and didn’t like the place. Even if most of the women are not up for any ‘wham bam thank you mam’ type action on the first date the nightlife has plenty to offer.
If you get blueballed you can always head to the blowjob hot tocs. Or you can just wait until your next date and hope to get laid the next time.
If you are only on a few day trip then the hooker nightlife is probably your best option. If you have more time then dating can be a great option, and meeting girls online is pretty easy for foreign men.
Just be friendly, take things slow, and if you get her alone in your room make your move. Sometimes the best rewards are the ones you have to wait on.
Hope this post on how to meet and date single girls in Ho Chi Minh City was helpful for you. Good luck, there are many sexy Vietnamese girls out there. This eBook breaks down how to get the most out of the nightlife in Vietnam.