Where To Meet Single Girls In Hanoi
The girls here just may be the sexiest in Southeast Asia, but they are also some of the hardest to score. This post can tell you some decent spots for where to meet single girls in Hanoi interested in foreign men, but don’t expect to be having casual sex too fast.
Usually when guys travel they want to go out to a singles bar, pull a slut, and move on to the next town. If that is your goal don’t even bother with this city. One night stands are going to be extremely rare here or anywhere around the country.
On the other hand if you want to try meeting single girls in Hanoi to find a hot girlfriend then that could be worth it. Casual sex doesn’t interest them, but finding a foreign husband might.
Knowing a bit of the language will go a very long way. Local girls are rarely good at speaking English and most guys that travel here don’t know any of the language at all. Knowing even a little bit can earn major brownie points.
One thing you will notice when you are in this country is that sexy Hanoi ladies and foreign men don’t mingle together very much. In the Philippines if you see a foreigner he very well may be walking hand in hand with a cute Filipina.
Here that is rarely the case. They seem to stick to their own kind. They aren’t rude about it, but they also can’t be categorized as ‘open’ or ‘welcoming’ either.
We will talk about where to meet single girls in Hanoi during the day, in the Old Quarter nightlife, and also on Vietnamese dating sites. Those are probably your best option, but we will get into that later.
Meeting Hanoi Girls During The Day
You should probably stay in the ‘Old Quarter’ which seems to be where most tourists stay. There will be good restaurants and a lot of cheap hotels in this area.
There is a huge coffee culture in this country and Hanoi girls are always going to cafes. There are cafes on every corner so it won’t be hard to find one.
If you see a single girl at a cafe say hello. Some will be happy to chat with foreign men, others will be cold. If she is cold back off.
Another great place to meet Hanoi girls during the day is at the many parks around town. Make a polite approach, smile, and speak slowly. You will quickly know whether the girl has any interest or not.
A lot of them want to learn English and will welcome the chance to chat up foreign men. It may not get you a date, but it is worth a shot.
Usually malls are the best places to day game Southeast Asian girls but this country isn’t big on malls. A couple shopping areas you could try out are Hanoi Square or Trang Tien Plaza.
Best Singles Nightlife In The Old Quarter
If you are in the Old Quarter then you are going to be around a good amount of nightlife and restaurants. They may not do malls well, but they do food well.
Some good restaurants to try out are Tacos Fresh and More, Gourment Corner Restaurant, Red Bean, Bun Cha Ta or Aubergine Cafe. You can also try any Vietnamese restaurant you see and there is a good chance it will be quality food.
There are also lots of open air restaurants and bars in this area that will be nice for dating Hanoi girls. They often go out with groups of friends so unless you like walking up to a table of locals and singling out a girl this might be pretty hard.
A good nightclub in the Old Quarter is the Dragonfly Bar Lounge where there will be many sexy women seeking foreign men. Some other good nightclubs around town are Funky Buddha Club and Infinity.
This Hanoi nightlife guide has more recommendations for where to meet singles in this city. Don’t expect to get one night stands from sluts in these clubs. You might be able to meet some single girls in Hanoi and get their numbers, but they will be more interested in dating and serious relationships than hook ups. That is just how it is here, in Ho Chi Minh City, Hue or wherever you go.
Meeting Single Girls In Hanoi Online
Many girls in Hanoi are going to be a lot better at reading/writing than they are at speaking English. If you approach them they may have an interest in you but be shy to try and speak with you in public.
However if you message them on Vietnam Cupid they may be more likely to reply and open to chatting. They are signing up to the site for a reason right? And that reason is to meet guys, and often times Hanoi girls are looking for foreign men.
We wrote a lengthy post on meeting foreign women online and most of it is relevant here as well. Keep messages short, don’t use big words, and don’t do anything fancy.
Just be a nice guy (not a perv) and ask them some simple questions. Then invite them out on a date. Don’t expect to get laid the first time, making the first date a quick coffee date is probably the most efficient way.
Then next time try dinner and some drinks and hope she agrees to come back to your place. This isn’t a good city for casual sex, single girls in Hanoi don’t give it up easily.
But you can find a good, honest, sexy girlfriend here if you are willing to put in the time. Lots of Asian girls grow up dreaming of a foreign husband.
Check out the selection of ladies in Hanoi on Vietnam Cupid. If you like what you see register and start messaging them, if not it didn’t cost you anything to check it out.
Good Luck Meeting Single Girls In Hanoi
But if you are willing to have some patience you can find a really great girlfriend or wife in Hanoi. It will take effort and won’t come easy, but it can be very worth it.
Good luck picking up single girls in Hanoi for casual sex or a serious relationship.